#1. Preface this part with... when my kids first found out I would be losing my hair with chemo it did "take them back a bit." Having a totally bald mom was not what they were used too.
Lauren in particular -- being 14 at the time -- was a little worried. One of her first comments was "Mom do you promise not to show up at my school looking like a sick cancer patient?"
At first she was hesitant for me to come to her track meets or soccer games, partially because of how I looked and because everyone wanted to talk to me and it would take forever to leave any place.
Gradually the self-consciousness left and she didn't seem to be bothered by it.
So, back to the compliment.
Last week we were driving down the street.
Lauren: "Mom, I'm lucky to have you as my mom."
Me: "Wow. Thanks. How come I deserve that compliment."
Lauren: "You really rock the short, platinum blonde hair. Most moms couldn't pull that off. You also have a good shape for a mom your age."
Me: Trying not to react too much -- "Thanks Lolo."
Still not sure where that came from, guessing maybe one of her friends said something to her... but Dave and I got a good laugh about it.
#2. I also have to admit I love it when people who don't know I have cancer tell me they love my hair. The cute kid at the grocery store yesterday said I had totally cool hair and pretty blue eyes. Kenzi was worried Dave might not be happy if he had been there. I assured him that since I was more than old enough to be the kid's mom it was ok.
#3. Despite the teasing of my family and sisters tonight at dinner, I am finding enjoyment in "styling" the new hair. I have two options now -- wearing it up (gel) and down (I put a hat on when I get out of the shower and it is flat). Who knew a boys short haircut could have so many options.
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